Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Driving Mrs. Sarah

I got my driver’s license a mere 2 weeks before Joshua and I got married. I DID get my driver’s permit right after I turned 15 but a month later I was stricken ill and left bedridden, which turned into years of being housebound (this started in 2000). I was in such terrible pain just the vibrations from the car and the bumps in the road caused me misery. I tried numerous medications and even had a few surgeries but was still sick anyways. Gradually I was getting better, with the most notable improvements beginning around summer of 2005. Then slowly I gained more health. By summer 2007 my doctor couldn’t believe how my illness had gotten so much better. To further the progress I did an aggressive physical therapy regimen. I had been in too much pain previously to undergo this strenuous treatment, but the time had finally arrived. Best of all, it was working! As my dear fiancĂ© was in Texas, I continued the medical treatment in order to prepare for marriage. One day I needed a ride from Williamsburg and my sister drove me home to Gloucester. This was the first opportunity I had to talk with her about my engagement and plans to move to Texas. She suggested I get my driver’s license before I move because Houston would require challenging city driving whereas Gloucester is easy country driving. I didn’t feel physically ready to pursue driving, but my sister made a good point. She even added, “What’s the worse that could happen? You fail the test, you’re embarrassed, you try again.” So I gave it a shot. Learning to drive was a nerve wracking experience, especially since I was terrified I’d wreck the car and have to spend all my moving/wedding money fixing it which would postpone getting married, or worse that I’d get into an accident and that would ruin the marriage and moving plans. Basically, I was terrified of the adversary taking the opportunity to get in my way while I was pursuing the righteous path of a temple marriage. But my Mom helped me to learn to drive and I succeeded! Though I did use my TENS unit, painkillers, and pillow for my back, lol! I got my license just in time to get married and move to Texas.

Joshua is helping me to learn to drive around here in Houston, TX. What a proud moment it was when he added me to his car insurance. It’s exciting to be making such triumph over this illness and the timing has clearly been God’s will.

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